
Here is the gang that I loved---and the chair. Other things Learned from Barney Miller: flashers, drag, homosexuality, racism, classism, elitism, drug abuse, poverty, and the struggle to be a leader with all of these ingredients in the soup.
A journal of a woman's fight to escape the business machine and return to a life with art.

As I meander through my somewhat adult life I realize that the little television exposure I did have effected the way I live. Sometimes my imagination is too big for books and definitely too big for TV when growing up. In my youth I believed in Sesame Street and wanted to live there in the apartment building when I was grown. I preferred Rhoda to Mary. Her attic apartment was the best---complete with a beaded doorway in which I desired to have in my first apartment. Of course Rhoda would be my best friend. We would comb each others long hippie inspired hair, drink lots of coffee and moan about life (and how we really didn't like perfect teeth Mary). And of course I would be married to Detective Stan "Wojo" Wojciehowicz from Barney Miller. Sometimes I wish it could be Captain Miller---but he was married after all. Fast forward twenty years or so. Here I am. I live in the upstairs of an old house. I have earthy artist friends like Rhoda (and I have the long hippie-like hair). I still love Sesame street and my art is reflective of the beauty found in childhood imaginings. And I am married---to a man of Slovak heritage and not Polish heritage. He is not a cop or a detective, but I believe he is a very honorable man. What does all this mean? When looking for a chair for the studio I wanted a Barney Miller chair. I found a feminine version---but I consider it my Barney Miller chair. The husband assembled it last night while I was at work, I was elated to come home and take a spin---imagining the crew at the 12th precinct and wondering who had to have the drag duty in the park for the night, what Fish ate for lunch...and pondered where would WoJo be now...
Our dear Friend Val is going to be a first-time grandmother any day now. While out and about shopping for the necessities of deodorant and trash bags we bumped to her at the Job. She is so excited and worried! She said she never new her daughter was so strong willed. The daughter plans on having the baby natural (complete with a Dula baby coach in the home). The daughter has had a difficult and uncomfortable first pregnancy and Val keeps telling that she has options---the drugs---if she wants them when the time comes. Val is so proud of her daughter for going natural (because Val said she could never endure that kind of pain). I totally respect her daughter's choice too. We are adding the new mom and baby to be to our daily thoughts as the delivery date approaches. And of course we had to get the mom and baby a little welcome to the world gift. Hence the green monster burp cloth made by a crafting mom at Frank & Me.